Sissy Maid Kaye Weblog

Life has its good and bad times. I know thats really not the way to start a blog post but what the hell.  I have been really busy with work and traveling.

Now on to the BIG NEWS!! I have meet a wonderful lady named Miss Fields. She is  a switch trying out her dominate side. Yeah me!! So lets start from the beginning, I did a demo back in October for a group in Atlanta. That evening was a play party and of course yours truly was there in my male submissive form. I was very social and meet a lot of wonderful people. In one of those conversation I was asked if i was the sissy from earlier in the day by these two girls. I said I was the sissy maid from earlier and the two girls dismissed themselves. I did not think twice about it and moved on to the next conversation. Fast forward let say 30 minutes, I walk over to one of my friends talk to two girls and joined in the conversation, not knowing it was the same two girls from earlier. As it turns out  one of the girls (Miss Fields) had a crush on me, we talked a few weeks later and had our first date and play date all in one weekend.

It was quite the mind blowing experience getting to know her and her friends. I have come around more to her since then and she has really started to embrace her dominate role.

I will update you more when I have time to write.

After my demo two weeks ago , I had a lot of people come up to me ask talk about being a sissy maid. I really felt the male submissive come out that night. I did not play at all but chatted and was a little slut for attention.

Now its been two weeks, I am still thinking about that night in a different light. This time its been more about finding the right Lady for me. I Hate to be another one of the male submissive that asks every girl if their dominate, its really not my style. What is the right way to approach a lady dominate for a scene or to go out?

I am not the best at picking up ladies. so any comments?

Well to start off, Sorry I have not been around that much lately. It is amazing how quick a month goes by. So most of you know that I have a presentation coming up this weekend the 18th of October. I am very excited and nervous at the same time. what am I saying I am terrified I will screw up royally and make an ass out of my self. But I will stick to the outline I made and everything should be fine.

With that news out of the way, I had one of the hottest scenes I have ever had with two beautiful Dommes. I am still reliving the scene. Suffice to say i was flying high for a few days afterwards.

I am looking forward to another great weekend in Atlanta.

Gender Bend event class schedule

12:00 – 1:15 Opening discussion panel (overview / terms / definitions / experiences)

1:15 – 1:30 soda break

1:30 – 2:15 Workshops I

Track two – Sissy Maid 101 – transforming from boy to maid, scene ideas and skills by Sissy Maid Kaye

3:00 – 3:30 snack break

3:30 – 4:15 workshops III

Track three – Gender in Kink and  Play – mental aspects of being a sissy maid, differences between a fetish maid and service maid by Sissy Maid Kaye

5:00 – 6:00 Wrap up discussion panel and Q&A

I have a Halloween party this weekend.  Can’t decide if i am going as a  school girl or a corseted sissy.  I always hate to pick and chose the outfit for each party. I guess I could go as a corseted sissy since I have not done that outfit in a while.

Mark your calenders, on October 18 in Atlanta. I will be presenting the 101of being a sissy maid and How to do a scene with a sissy maid. it will be more of a discussion and a Q&A type class than a lecture.  MOre information to come once the date gets a little closer. So stay tuned!!

One year ago, I started this journey of becoming the sissy maid that i have fantasized about. It has been one of the most rewarding goals i have accomplished in my life. i have meet some of the most amazing people in the world and made Friend with people i could never imagine having.

Most know that I have meet and become friends with sissy maid kelly . But most do not know the back story behind the friendship we have now.  I started out being a closet fantasy only sissy who did not understand what it was like to actually be a sissy maid. I was told  by kelly that i need to find a BDSM group in my area to get my head out of the fantasy world/online bs and into the real world of kink.

And i did just that, I started learning about different play meeting people who are more than happy to tell me about the lifestyle.

My new goal for this next year is to find the women,  I have been searching for.

Please read the past post and comment on them. I hope to encourage more sissies to join the lifestyle.

Recently, I have been watching Manor House (originally on PBS). It really like watching D/s in a vanilla way, I find that the owners of the house. The Master and Mistress of the house are very much in control of what goes on in their house. They can do as they please and make the servants do thing at the snapp of a finger.

Then you have the servant of the house, the butler, maids *smiles*. Who are in service for years at a time with out any or very little contact to their families. Their wear uniform that are designated to their job with in the house. So they could be forced into submission by the way the house is run. Kinda interesting how you find D/s in the most unusual places. Thats what got my perverted mind going.

I thought how much fun it would be to have a house, where the maids, would be cute sissy maids cleaning and attending to the need of the Mistress of the house. How would you like to be the Mistress or the sissy maid ?

In the recent weeks, I have bought some new sissy panties. Which I have actually been neglecting to get. I guess it was not really on my mind to buy. Now I hate myself for not getting some sooner. They are so cute, I am really wanting to wear them at the next event I go to.

I have really become organized since my post on this topic. I think it is very important, if your going to dress at an event because of all the items you need to become a sissy maid.  I use very inexpensive ziploc storage bends to keep every item in an easy container with in a bag.

It has been a while since I last posted. Sorry I had a lot going on in my life out side of the lifestyle. I went to a group this weekend, where I got to dress  up in my bright pink uniform. Which I actually need to put up for a while and wear my purple one for a change. I think people have seen me enough in one uniform. With that said. I was restrained by chain to restrict my range of motion,while I was taken around the play space.  I still turn heads because of how different being a sissy is from the whole kink scene.

More to come, I promise.